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Posted by The Bristal  |  November 19, 2018

Memory Loss: What's Normal; What's Not?

With dementia, Alzheimer’s disease, and other memory-related cognitive disorders so top-of-mind today, it might cause you to pause and wonder:

Is My Age-Related Memory Loss Normal?

According to studies, almost 40 percent of people over the age of 65 experience some form of memory loss. When there is no medical issue behind it, it’s referred to as “age-associated memory impairment,” a normal result of aging.

On the other hand, brain diseases like Alzheimer’s and other types of dementia are something quite different.

Related: Understanding the common symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease. >>

Age-Related Memory Loss Versus Dementia

While forgetfulness may be unsettling or frustrating, it isn’t necessarily a sign of dementia. A key difference between normal age-related memory loss and dementia is the severity and frequency of the symptoms, as in the examples below.

Normal aging is not being able to remember details of a conversation or event that took place a year ago.

Dementia may be not being able to recall details of recent events or conversations.


Normal aging is not being able to remember the name of an acquaintance.

Dementia is not recognizing or knowing the names of family members.

Normal aging  means occasionally having trouble finding words.

Dementia  can mean frequent pauses and substitutions when finding words.

Normal aging is being worried about your memory, but your relatives are not.

Dementia  is when your relatives are worried about your memory, but you are not aware of any problems.


So, if you’ve been struggling a bit to remember simple things, don’t jump to conclusions. Your concerns may just be a normal part of aging. Any true diagnosis can only be made by a physician.

Related: How to spot the signs of Alzheimer’s that aren’t related to memory.>>

Tips to Help Keep Your Brain Sharp

Here are some tips from the Mayo Clinic that may help improve your memory:

Stay organized.

Keep activities, events, to-dos and reminders in a planner or on your phone. If you know you’ll need to do or remember something later, write it down right away - it’s easier to look back at your notes than try to recall what it was.

Try new experiences.

Your brain likes to be challenged and soak in new things. Research shows it can even help your brain repair itself and build new connections at any age. To that end, don’t be afraid to shake up your routine a bit.

Spend quality time with others.

Staying social is good for both your emotional and mental health. Having dinner with family or friends, joining a book club or choir group, or just talking on the phone can all help.

Get a full night’s sleep.

Getting quality sleep is critical for all aspects of your well-being, even memory (as anyone who’s gone to work after a sleepless night can attest). Setting a regular bedtime, limiting distractions and bright lights, and keeping your room cool can help you drift off more easily.

Stay physically active.

Research shows that exercise changes the brain in a good way, and challenging your body also challenges your mind. Taking walks, stretching, or joining a fitness group are good ways to keep moving. As with any fitness routine, talk to your doctor before beginning.

Eat a healthy diet.

There’s a reason people call some foods “brain food” - they’ve been linked to a healthier mind in addition to being good for your body. Leafy greens like spinach, oily fish like salmon, and antioxidant-rich fruits like blueberries can all be healthy (and delicious) additions to your diet.

Related: Improve your memory with these six ‘brain foods.’

More Information About Dementia

If you’re truly concerned about memory loss, you should always consult a physician. But just remember: It’s perfectly normal for everyone’s memory to slip a bit as we age.

Still curious about other signs of memory loss?

Learn more about the types of dementia and their causes.

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