25 for 25: Tips for New Residents for the Best First Month

It's Your First Day - You're only new for five minutes!

1. "You're only the 'new resident' for five minutes. Everyone will want to get to know you!" - Lindsay, Director of Community Relations at The Bristal at Lake Grove

2. "It helps to remind yourself that everyone here has had a first day just like you." - Hannah, Director of Community Relations at The Bristal at Somerset

3. "Moving into assisted living is a big change - take it one day at a time." - Janani, Executive Director at The Bristal at North Hills

4. "Give yourself time to adjust and make friends." - Beata, Senior Lifestyle Director at The Bristal at Wayne

5. Ask your neighbors about their transition - it might help you settle in more quickly.

Make friends and stay open-minded.

6. "Be curious, not judgmental." - Kelly, Director of Community Relations at The Bristal at Massapequa

7. Ask about the new resident welcome committee or buddy program at your community.

8. "Come with an open mind - it's the only way new things can get in." Ryan, Community Relations Coordinator at The Bristal at Mount Sinai

9. Remind yourself that each new person you meet could become your new best friend.

10. "Be ready to make friends. Residents love being together, sharing ideas, and learning together." Debbie, Lifestyle Director, The Bristal at Somerset

Make it Yours!

11. "Personalize your space with familiar items from home." Julie, Director of Community Relations at The Bristal at Lake Success

12. Set a date and time to connect with family virtually or over the phone, or invite them to join you for lunch.

13. Schedule a salon appointment - self-care helps boost confidence and comfort.

14. "Enjoy yourself!" Lori, Director of Community Relations, The Bristal at North Woodmere and The Bristal at Lynbrook

15. Keep your routine in place as much as possible to feel more comfortable from day one.

Get Involved - Try Everything!

16. "Try everything! If you don't like something, you don't have to stay." John, Lifestyle Director, The Bristal at Holtsville

17. "Start with at least one activity per day and add more as you get comfortable." Denise, Director of Community Relations, The Bristal at Sayville

18. "Attend as many programs as possible - you'll meet new people and find what you enjoy." Karen, Community Relations Coordinator, The Bristal at Sayville

19. Invite someone to join you for a meal or for a program. It's the easiest way to make a new friend.

20. "Don't be afraid to try something you never did before, like art, fitness, or clubs. Sometimes that turns out to be the thing you're the most excited for every week." Sofia, Lifestyle Director, The Bristal at North Woodmere

We're here for you every step of the way.

• 21. "We're all here for you." Danielle, Director of Community Relations, The Bristal at Wayne

  22. Bring forward any concerns or questions immediately so they can be addressed.

  23. "You're not alone; our team is always available to help." Jen, Director of Community Relations, The Bristal at Mount Sinai

  24. "Don't stress about the change - just ask if you need something. We're here to help!" Joe, General Manager, Encore Luxury Living

  25. "If you have an idea, plant the seed, share it with us, and we'll help it grow." Jennifer, Lifestyle Director, The Bristal at Mount Sinai